Friday, March 27, 2015

twenty seven at twenty seven (27@27)




Hmmm..so it is now a month since my "momentous birthday".

The time when finally my birthdate corresponds with my age - a milestone in my life. And, there were many wonderful surprises too. My mom, thru my officemate, send not only gifts (couriered by lbc) but also a celebration. We had lunch at the office (with balloons, birthday cake and lots of foods). We had dinner at Bigby's where the staff gave me a sort of ice cream cake (idk what it's called actually) while singing the bday song(imagine my face with mixed emotions while they were singing). Also, my bestest best friend forever (bbff) send me her gifts at various dates (naks! Hehehe)


Anyhoo, it is now time to evaluate what I have accomplished so far vis a vis the goals I have set when I was younger. The "envisoned me" vis a vis the "present me" at 27.



1st: anime vs "real" people

When I was younger, I thought that when I reached 27, I will no longer be addicted to anime. That my preference will change to "real" people or events like teleserye or news. However,  such is not the case. I still love anime. Although I am not reading manga now as often as I did back then, (because of the lack of time considering the gazillions of cases and provisions I have to read, memorize and understand), but when I do have the time and have access to the net, I read and download anime. Hahahas :)



2nd: maturity

What is maturity?

According to Mr. Webster, maturity is the state of being mature (having or showing the mental and emotional qualities of an adult).

At this age, I have envisioned myself of being one. A person capable of making decisions which are logical and practical based on different circumstances. And, I can say I have matured. Why? Because my decisions are not solely based on my feelings and emotions anymore. I am more considerate and give more thought to others when making these decisons since it does not affect only me but also them. Hehehe Also, the advises I give are now with more depth than before because of the various experiences I have gained and that is where I get my "wisdom". Moreover, I now have bills to pay unlike before since it was my parents who take care of such things back then.  



3rd: relationship status

Hehehe. Let us face it. I am not getting any younger anymore. And although I look younger than my age, still, the fact that I am now 27 cannot be ignored. The biological clock is ticking and though my maternal instincts are not yet awaken, the genes which are supposed to be passed on the next generation is now ripe (char!) So anyway, when I was younger my thoughts were that at this age my relationship status would either be engaged or married. However, I am neither. But don't get me wrong for I am not disappointed or sad or pressured or stressed or any other negative feeling or emotion. I am just ME me. I think I am just at that point where I want to let things just unfold on their own time-no stress or pressure but just trust in the plans HE has for me.


4th: travel plans

My travel plans are soon to be realized!hehehe My bbff and I have already booked our plane tickets for cebu and boracay. So, hopefully, God will lets us :) *crossed fingers*




5th: wealth/earnings

My expected salary is not met, but I am reallu thankful that I am employed. And that,  as of the moment, I am now at 60% of my target tcd amount..yehey.. hehehe  I really pray to God that it will grow more :)


6th: education


I just have to finish my thesis and I will finally have my Masters Degree :) hehehe Initially, my plans did not include law studies until 30 but it is great that I had already started it earlier. And when I resume, it will be my 3rd year already..So AJAH!



7th: Bucketlist

Hehehe I am glad that most of them had already been checked which is why at the start of 2015, I already updated it ;)



All  in all, although what I wrote in my yearbook is soooo far from reality today since I wrote there my 3Cs which means: car,cafe and condo. As my bbff pointed out,  I already have my 3Cs: cordova(my bf's sutname), career and continuing edudation. Being positive is the key. And our plans, though they change from time to time, they still guide us towards a direction (hopefully toward God's plan) Nonetheless, what is important is that we have plans. As my professor in graduate studies said "if you fail to plan, you plan to fail".


2 comments:

  1. We're growing up without really getting older.

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    1. yes we are and i hope we age beautifully inside and out :)

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